Here, obviously where The Scary One tells me that ‘when she wants my opinion she’ll give it to me.‘
And she insists on doing all the driving.
But looking back too, to ancient and glorious civilisation where women rule the roost.
Not where you might first imagine but when you realise its where the ‘First Women’ was found it makes sense.
Queens of Africa
One more cuppa: With my Ethiopian friends
International Women’s Day brings back memories of an invitation extended to me back in the day in Ireland.
From our friends at Ethiopian Airlines who asked us out to Addis Ababa for their take on the day.
When the pilot and whole crew were female.
Following the lead of their female-led government.
With a president, since 2018, Sahle-Work Zewde, and
And their matriarch Lucy, the oldest woman in the world, whose relics the great and good of the world come to pay homage.
And the Queen of Sheba, whom we know from the Bible, and who I have a version of here at home.
Wonderful for women
Smiles better: My Ethiopian friend Meseret
On the occasion of my invite out to Ethiopia for International Women’s Day I passed on the invite to a woman which I hope raised my status in the eyes of my female friends.
Of course, the female of the species oft-times prefers their own company and that applies particularly to travel and solo female travel.
Tour de force: For women
And these are the countries our friends at Solo Female Travelers Club recommend as the best places to travel for a female.
Your own country
Spain
Australia
Thailand
UK
Italy
Japan
Singapore
Indonesia
Europe’s Nordic countries
New Zealand
Now SFTC flags up all the areas you would for all travellers, safety, communications, accommodation, food and drink and value.
All of which the above score highly on although we do notice that the friendliest country on Earth, Ireland, doesn’t appear.
Now we’ll let you explore SFTC’s touchpoints yourself where they’ll dispel some myths about safety in Thailand and that you get pestered in Italy.
And let you look at the all-women t0urs they recommend where women are in the driving seat.
International Women don’t you just love ’em? I even married one.
On today’s International Women’s Day a shout-out then to some of the international women who took me under their wing.
Of course, the international woman of mystery whose oxter always gives me shade is my own English rose.
Boss woman: Mum’s the word, and Sadie too
And there are many more women from our nearest neighbours in Travel who have guided me on my path than I have room here to mention.
Now if anything underscores this year’s message on International Women’s Day #BeattheBias it is the success of those who occupy the biggest positions in our trade.
And so ladies take a bow, I would be nothing without you… you are all worthy Bandanettes.
White knight
Power women: Bandanaman, Jo, Cathy and United Airlines’ Aoife
Organising my life is hard enough left to just one man which is why I leave that job to my aforementioned English rose.
But when you’re on your travels to the good old Oo Es of Eh you really do need someone on the ground.
And that someone is Jo White who heads up the UK & Ireland media delegation for the American Travel Fair.
I know I speak for all of us indulged travellers who have sought her out to help with dodgy dongles, accommodation and transfers.
And who have danced the night away to the best music acts put on by her American counterpart and fellow superstar Cathy Keefe Reynolds.
Now hosts have a right, nay an obligation, to enjoy the activities they put on for us.
And after Attraction Tickets’ Kate Bates had asked me for recommendations for our party to take on in Hollywood she’d have expected me to take part.
Alas, the generosity of a stranger (moi) to take a passenger’s ski bag meant I was out of commission.
For the day Kate, Jon, Helen and Heather trekked up to see the Hollywood sign, check out Warner Studios and go on a boat trip.
I did have more to write about my West Hollywood hotel though that day.
And I did bounce back to see old friends at Universal Studios the next day.
Ms Carter
Get Carter: Cheryl and Bim Jim
I love a strong woman, probably as I’m begotten of an Irish Mammy.
And in the Caribbean they don’t come much stronger than Cheryl Carter, Barbados’s Head of Global Markets.
One raised eyebrow will quickly remind you that there will be no going AWOL on her trip.
And so I was left in no doubt when I asked early leave from our dinner to hook up with my half-Scots/half-Trinidadian pal Jevan for Foreday Morning of my obligations.
To be ready for the next day’s activities.
Now what happens at Foreday Morning stays on Foreday Morning.
But when I turned up for our meeting with my leg gashed open I gritted my teeth… the rum through the day helped.