And had we known each other before we would obviously have exchanged compliments… that we were looking years younger.
Seven years, of course, as our calendar is on a different time scale to the Ethiopians.
It was always a high point of the year to spend Ethiopian New Year with Meseret, Ethiopian Airlines’ Country Manager Ireland, and the Ethiopian community.
Hands up for Ethiopia
A bright future
And eat with our hands, a type of pitta bread to scoop up the meats, rices and vegetables, all washed down with Ethiopian wine.
Before we watched the traditional coffee-making ceremony and sampled the coffee which I now only take out on special occasions.
I was entranced by Meseret as soon as I met her.
And she by me, obviously, and she even invited me to send a writer to Ethiopia to celebrate International Women’s Day.
It’s the must-have supply for lockdown or self-isolation… a five-litre keg of beer delivered to your door by bike.
An Edinburgh brewer has come up with an old-fashioned solution to our booze needs, biking and vanning our beer to us, while we are confined to barracks.
Andrew ‘Barney’ Barnett has turned to home deliveries from his micro-brewery in Summerhall while his normal outlets are on hold.
Barney time: Barney delivers every time
And his new business has been a Godsend to a broad section of the public, from students to those of us with cabin fever, to our senior citizens.
‘We’ve found that people don’t like the inconvenience of having to queue at supermarkets and have been ordering in our beers,’ he said.
‘We’ve had everybody from students to people who have had to self-isolate, ordering our beer.
Load ‘em up
‘One older gentleman in assisted accommodation was particularly grateful to have his beer left out for him at the end of his path.
‘It’s been a treat for him, a bit of social contact to see a cheery smile and a wave.’
While Barney, 53, brews up, Edinburgh firm Farr Out Deliveries takes the beer which comes in 12 and 24 packs around to your home… the kegs will followfrom Wednesday.
Barney has now rolled out his beer-delivery business across the whole of Britain with the help of DHL.
Award-winning beer… at Barney’s
And all with a cheery smile and a wave.
There is a £5 delivery charge for under £50 and free delivery for over £50.
A little corner of Queen’s, New York, will forever be Co. Donegal.
For 60 years ex-pats and people who aren’t called Pat but love their craic have chosen The Irish Cottage as their place of refuge.
From the humdrum and their troubles at home.
A Donegal dream
Here Danny and Kathleen McNulty would make them feel part of their family and as close to being in Donegal https://www.govisitdonegal.com as you could be… 5,000kms from Ireland.
An emotional moment: At the Irish Cottage
Full disclosure here, Danny and Kathleen McNulty are my uncle and auntie.
The force of Nature that she was, Auntie Kathleen, passed onto the great Irish Cottage in the sky last month.
Where Uncle Danny would have been waiting for with her favourite drink.
Cottage industry
I first visited the Irish Cottage in 1983 before I could even legally drink but it didn’t stop Auntie Kathleen have me moving kegs out back.
King of Queens: Andy Murray, US Open champion In 2012
All the cousins were employed there to varying degrees over the years.
The canopy was lowered on a Queen’s institution – Steve Buscemi (of Boardwalk Empire) is a patron – last month to mark Auntie Kathleen’s passing.
Break soda bread together
I have a wealth of memories of the Irish Cottage.
Particularly the last occasion we broke (soda) bread there.
And the McNultys got the greater family out from Long Island.
And we had their famous Surf ‘n’ Turf… I could still be trying to finish it now.
The Lady and the scamp
Visitors to New York https://www.nycvb.com will obviously and rightly take in the iconic sites…
The Empire State Building, the Statue of Liberty. the Rockefeller Center, Broadway er al.
Where the US Open tennis https://ustanew2.gotennissource.com is a unique experience and where another famous Scot (Andy Murray) rocked NY when he won the men’s title in 2012.
Fun guy him… and I do love an oul’ risotto Rome on €50.
I’ve seen first-hand on an inspection tour of their fleet at Dublin Airport just how they look after the little ones.
And you can download a number of family activities from their site.
Jet-propellled: In Jordan
Which is all good to know as we’ll want to occupy ourselves in our own seats as much as we can.
When we take to the skies again.
Are we there yet? Well, I’m in no hurry… I’m on an Etihad airplane.
Shukran Etihad.
Jaunty Jordan
And shukran too to my Jordanian host Zuhair, G Adventures www.gadventures.co.uk and Visit Jordan www.visitjordan.com who took me a whip-crackin’ away to Petra,.
There have been 45 presidents of the US since King George III was sent packing. The US, though, has had three Kings, who have left a lasting legacy.
This year is the 50th anniversary of Dr Martin Luther King’s assassination and last week we followed in his footsteps from Memphis where he made his Mountaintop speech and was assassinated to the Mississippi Civil Rights Museum and the opening of a new chapter in the Civil Rights story.
This week we look at B.B. King, the Blues and Beale Street, before finishing in Graceland with Elvis Presley, the King.
The King of Beale Street
Woke up this morning. Well, this is the home of the Blues, Memphis, Tennessee, so there was only one thing for it, I headed down to Beale Street.
Which is, of course, the first place visitors come when they arrive here.
Even this early in the morning, 9am, the Blues is blaring out from the bars and clubs even though they won’t open until early evening.
We were in B.B.’s Blues Bar the night before, dancing to the early hours to the house band,
Working off the Barbecue chicken, rice and catfish and going back for seconds, rolling down the river to Tina Turner’s Proud Mary.
Riley King first came here from his native Mississippi in his late teens.
I’ll blow your trumpet for you: WC Handy
But he first started making his mark when the sole black radio station in town, WDIA, championed him
in his early 20s when he was christened Beale Street Blues Boy, abbreviated to Blues Boy (he was just B to his friends).
B.B. has been intertwined with Beale Street ever since.
His club is at the foot of the pedestrianised stretch where revellers mill every night, spilling out of the clubs, taking the party outside.
W.C. Handy, the ‘Father of the Blues’, looks down the road at us all,
From outside the pedestrian cordon further down Beale Street…
His boyhood shack has been recreated in exact detail nearby.
It was Band leader Handy, travelling around the Mississippi Delta over the turn of the 20th century who curated the sounds.
Which would become the Blues.
And developed it and brought it to the mainstream in Memphis,
And Beale Street comes alive at night
His standard Memphis Blues, which was originally called Crump’s Blues, was written for the Mayoral candidate.
Handy, his trumpet in hand, stands across the road from the Robert Church Park.
Named for the South’s first black millionaire, who along with Handy did most to turn Beale Street into a cultural and commercial hub for black Memphians.
Today it is a tourist hub but is also a living, breathing, musical experience.
And as is explained to us it provides work for gigging local musicians.
And it has the seal of approval from the Blues specialists in our group.
At the heart of Memphis life then, as now, is the Church and the historic First Baptist Church has special resonance.
They all came here to worship and sing Gospel.
The Blues today
Gospel was B.B.’s first influence when he watched his own pastor play guitar in church back in Mississippi.
Jerry Lee Lewis’s club is down Beale Street.
One of many jumping joints, including the highly-recommended Rum Boogie Bar.
Where our own Wolfgang got up to play harmonica and earned a tenner from the band, his first-ever commission.
There’s an Irish bar too, obviously.
Silky O’sullivan, with duelling pianos, a Blues museum, numerous soul diners.
And also Lansky’s which boasts that it is the clothier to the King.
The Blues Trail
Elvis, like B.B., was from Mississippi which is where we’ll go next to see where the Blues all started.
The Blues Trail is a 200-marker route through time and Mississippi.
It chronicles all the great Blues singers, B.B. Muddy Waters, Charley Patton, Son House, Sonny Boy Williamson, John Lee Hooker et al.
And retelling their stories.
If you are an independent traveller you should make use of the Blues Trail app.
I can never trust either my sense of direction regardless of how straight these roads are.
Much of it is the vertical Highway 61, the Blues Highway..
Or my command of technology.
But that’s just me, and thankfully our 20-strong party, has laid-back and knowledgeable Southerner Clint driving us.
And educating us in the Blues, cranking up the CDs on the decks.
Short of sleep… all these Bluesy nights, I drift off into a dream as we pass the open flat brown fields.
Everybody loves their Grammy
That at one time teemed with black slaves and sharecroppers.
‘Oh, I wish I was single because my lady is driving me mad.’
And suddenly I’m back. It’s the music.
In truth, you could never mistake Modern-Day Man with Bluesman, they were a different species.
No woman nowadays would allow it.
Not that they seemed to then either.
The Baddest Man in Blues: Robert Johnson
Every Bluesman has his wife leaving them ‘because his woman done them wrong’ though there’s always the assumption that he’ll talk his way back.
All Bluesmen are the same, the same but then different.
And then on top of all that there’s Robert Johnson, ‘the Baddest Man in Blues,.
Who legend has it made a deal with the Devil at a crossroads.
Near to where we stop off at Dockery Plantation.
After which we returned to town with a new-found guitar style which set him apart from his peers.
Whatever the truth, and who wouldn’t want to believe this story, we do know that Robert was a bit of an oul’ Divil for the women.
He seemed to have one in every port or town.
Birthplace of the Blues
More often than not somebody else’s which ultimately was his undoing.
When he was poisoned at 27, the wife of a jealous husband lacing his whiskey with Strychnine.
Our own hero B.B. loved, and was much loved by women.
He even named his guitars after women, or one woman in particular, Lucille, a damsel in distress.
Legend has it that two fellas were fighting over her at one of his gigs.
When a fire broke out interrupting the concert forcing everyone to evacuate the building.
We look the part, don’t we?
B.B. realising that his favourite guitar was still inside rushed into the building to retrieve it and thereafter named his guitars after her.
I get to caress Lucille later in our trip at the Westin Hotel in Jackson.
Where there is a promotion with replica guitars of the greats left in selected rooms.
Women held a special affection for B.B. He married three times and sired 11 children at least, maybe even 15.
When love came to town, B.B. certainly didn’t turn it down.
And that’s worth singing about.
Travel facts
United we stand: Boarding United Airlines
Jim flew with United Airlines, Dublin to Newark, New Jersey and then onto Mississippi, returning Jackson, Mississippi to Houston, Texas.
Then onto Newark and onto Dublin.
Car hire, three nights Memphis – Peabody, one night Cleveland – Hampton Inn, two nights Natchez – The Burn B&B, two nights Jackson – Westin. Costs may vary.
I’d got a taste for Barbados as a guest of the Barbados Tourist Board the previous year Let’s rumba in Barbados and was back here with Ruby for seconds My kiss with Rihanna.
Yes, as you can see, Ruby sure showed me the ropes… and her paddle!
For the rest I’ll pass you onto my friends at Club Barbados for this culinary and rummery guide.
Gone fishing
Coucou and flying fish: And this is what Ruby had me cooking in front of the class.
And you can check it all out on your Visit Barbados YouTube channel with its cooking tutorials.
While here is your Visit Barbados recipe book.
Shaking it up
You’ll be washing it down with rum punch too.
And, of course, it’s as easy as pie to make, but like everything to do it well then leave it to the experts.
Visit Barbados are also pushing mocktails too (yes, quite) and their Barbadian Pineapple Mocktail.
Again you’ll see it on the Visit Barbados YouTube channel.
And a shout-out to Tobago
Now that I had a taste for it I was desperate for more education.
Rome wasn’t built in a day… if it was there wouldn’t be so much to enjoy.
But if you’ve only got one day (and maybe the next morning)…
Then what to see and what to miss out?And how to do it for less than €50 spending money.
Fun and games at the Circo Maximo
Bohemian Trastevere next door past the Circo Maximo is a better bet.And I recommend the welcoming and economical Hotel Trastevere although remember there’s a €4 a night city tax.
Walk the walk
A family thing happened on the way to the Forum
It’s free and it’s fun… to people watch, window shop and you can take pictures at your leisure.
L’Amore: With La Scary One
You’ll pay for the privilege of eating and drinking near St Peter’s Square and the Trevi Fountain.
Instead grab a pezzo (slice of pizza) on the go for about €3, fill your water bottles from the ornate water taps that proliferate around the city.
Rather than buy it from the shops.
Or just go into a grocery or supermarket and buy a picnic of bread and cold meats. For about a fiver.
This is free
Playing the Emperor
Walking boy the Colosseum and The Forum never loses its appeal but you don’t have to go in, the audio guides will only tell you what you can find out online anyway.
And he’s free
Il Papa’s home. Photo by Valentin Onu on Pexels.com
Book an audience with the Pope. It’s Mass but he plays to the gallery and the backdrop of St Peter’s can’t be beaten.
If you can’t get an audience, and you’ll need to book in advance, then attend Mass in St Paul’s Basilica – you’ll be in there anyway.
Or any of the churches in the city, they double as art galleries.
Other frescoes
The test of time
The Sistine Chapel is a truly wonderful work of art but frescoes can only really be enjoyed if you’ve got time, space and quiet.
Besides every church in Rome has a stunning fresco.
The best fresco, of course, is in the Pantheon, the 7.8m diameter hole in the dome, because God made the view.
It changes every day.
When it rains on Rome stop whatever you’re doing and rush to the Pantheon.
Spend a penny
Penny for your thoughts
No, not that penny, although I can recommend the toilets in the oh-so English Barrington Tea Room, near to the Spanish Steps – Byron, Keats and Shelley lived around her.
More Babington Wee Room, if you like.
No, spend a penny by throwing one over your shoulder into the Trevi Fountain.
It’s a cliche, and a superstition but it’s everything that people say it is.
Of course, they know you’ll come back to Rome… how could you stay away?
Skulls and bones
When you’ve seen everything else – and definitely make time for the Castel Sant’Angelo (€10.50) https://www.castelsantangelo.com which is next to St Peter’s Square where rich Papal history was played out.